Common experiences

LGBTIQ+ young people experience health and social challenges that impact their mental health and act as barriers to healthcare.

By understanding some of the more common challenges your clients experience, you will be better equipped to support them in your clinical practice.

Alcohol and other drug use

One-third (33%) of LGBTQ+ young people aged 12 to 17 years surveyed for the Writing Themselves In 4: NSW report said they had used recreational drugs in the past six months, compared with 18% of their cis heterosexual peers.1

LGBTIQ+ young people may engage in alcohol and other drug (AOD) use for different reasons to their heterosexual peers. As a clinician, it’s helpful to understand both your client's individual reasons, and the context of AOD use in LGBTIQ+ culture.

Often the intersection of LGBTIQ+ stigma and discrimination is not considered when supporting young clients who engage in problematic AOD use. This can mean that their reasons for use are not acknowledged, their shame about use and LGBTIQ+ experience is increased, and they are blamed as an individual.

LGBTIQ+ clients may use AOD because:

  • it is often seen as an element of connection in LGBTIQ+ community
  • parties and festive spaces, where AOD use is common, are among the few safe spaces for LGBTIQ+ people to express identity and connection
  • it helps to lessen inhibitions and overcome internalised shame about identity, creating space to explore gender expression, sexual intimacy and social connections
  • they are self-medicating for mental health distress in the context of stigma and discrimination, and managing internalised shame about LGBTIQ+ identity.

Resources for AOD

Youth Support and Advocacy Service (YSAS) resource hub
Resources exploring AOD use in young people and tools for clinicians working with them.

Between the lines
Resources for AOD harm reduction, education and support.
Source: ACON

Housing and homelessness

The Writing Themselves In 4 report found that 23.6% of LGBTQ+ young people aged 14 to 24 had experienced at least one form of homelessness.1 Safe, secure and stable housing is a key social determinant of health, and the impacts of insecure housing are long lasting and compound mental health issues.2 In addition, LGBTIQ+ people often experience homelessness at a younger age than the general population due to homophobia at home.

The report does not include young people with intersex variations, and the impact on this group of homelessness due to stigma and discrimination is not clear due to a lack of data.

When working with clients experiencing housing instability, be aware of:

  • potential for greater reliance on chosen family, friends and community for housing and social support
  • the impact of housing insecurity on attendance at school and appointments, as well as alcohol and other drug use
  • the strain that housing insecurity can put on community and intimate relationships, including power and control dynamics
  • rough sleeping may feel like the only option available to them – use a person-led approach to support what is best for the client while advocating for safe and affirming housing options
  • the impact of homophobia or transphobia when accessing housing services or supports – it's common for trans young people to be denied single-gendered housing options due to their identity, and advocacy may be needed for them to access appropriate housing.

Eating disorders and body image

For LGBTIQ+ young people, the causes of eating disorders and support for these issues can be more complex than in the general population. Consider the following social, psychological and identity-related factors that may affect LGBTIQ+ clients.

  • Homophobia, transphobia and the need to fit in and conform to societal standards can lead to significant emotional distress.
  • Discrimination, alienation or rejection of LGBTQ+ clients by family or friends can cause feelings of isolation. For clients with intersex variations, discrimination and stigma about their bodies can cause feelings of isolation. This may heighten stress and exacerbate pre-existing vulnerabilities related to body image and eating behaviours.
  • For trans, non-binary and gender diverse clients, gender dysphoria can lead to eating disorders as they try to modify their bodies to align more closely with their gender identity.
  • Trans and gender diverse people may feel pressure to meet societal beauty and body image standards, such as 'passing' so their gender identity is validated.
  • Narrow cultural representation of LGBTIQ+ people in media and culture can mean a client doesn't see themselves reflected in a positive or diverse manner. This may exacerbate feelings of inadequacy or pressure to conform to certain body image standards.
  • There is a gap in appropriate and affirming healthcare services for LGBTIQ+ individuals, including those dealing with eating disorders which are predominantly geared towards cisgender endosex women.

Resources for eating disorders and body image

LGBTIQA+ people, eating disorders and body image
Understanding issues and accessing support specific to LGBTIQA+ people with eating disorders.
Source: Butterfly

How my gender identity impacted my eating disorder as a trans man
Understanding issues and accessing support specific to LGBTIQA+ people with eating disorders.
Source: Butterfly

Family, domestic and sexual violence

Both national and international research indicates that LGBTQ+ people experience sexual, family of origin and intimate partner violence at rates comparable with, or higher than, those reported by women in the general population. However, there is limited research specifically addressing the violence experienced by LGBTQ+ people, and no reliable research into the experiences of people with intersex variations in Australia.

InterAction describes the risk of domestic, family and intimate partner violence for for people with intersex variations:

“Intersex people have innate sex characteristics that don’t fit medical and social norms for female or male bodies, and that creates risks or experiences of stigma, discrimination and harm. Those experiences of stigma and harm can occur in domestic, family and other intimate situations.”

As a CAMHS clinician, you will be familiar with supporting young people experiencing family, domestic and sexual violence (see the NSW Government’s Domestic and Family Violence Framework for Reform).

Below are some of the experiences and barriers to support that are specific to LGBTIQ+ clients.

Family of origin violence

LGBTIQ+ experiences of family of origin violence can include:

  • rejection or minimisation of LGBTQ+ identity, e.g: “You’re too young to know,” or “It might just be a phase".
  • deadnaming and deliberate misuse of pronouns
  • denial of access to mental healthcare
  • denial of access to gender affirmative interventions, such as puberty blockers or gender affirming hormones
  • preventing social or intimate relationships with LGBTIQ+ peers
  • discrimination and rejection based on innate variation of sex characteristics
  • using beliefs about faith or religion to de-legitimise or undermine the identity of an LGBTIQA+ person
  • conversion practices
  • expulsion from the home
  • forced marriage.

Intimate partner violence

LGBTIQ+ experiences of intimate partner violence can include:

  • ‘outing’ (or threatening to out) a partner in spaces where they don’t openly identify as LGBTQ+ (e.g. family, school, work, faith or social)
  • deadnaming and deliberate misuse of pronouns
  • hiding gender-affirming, intersex-affirming, HIV or mental health medication
  • using a partner’s mental health experiences to exert power and control
  • disclosing (or threatening to disclose) a partner’s intersex variation
  • exerting power and control by using knowledge of a partner’s intersex variation, including their physical appearance, specific biological traits and the impacts of those traits or related medical intervention, such as infertility or impaired fertility
  • using societal norms of masculinity and femininity to control a partner’s behaviours, presentation or role in the relationship
  • weaponising cultural, racial or faith traditions to shame a partner
  • threatening self-harm or suicide if a partner seeks help for intimate partner violence.

Sexual assault

Sexual violence involving a cisgender heterosexual man sexually abusing or harassing a cisgender heterosexual woman is the dominant social idea of sexual assault. This means that LGBTIQ+ people may not realise they’ve experienced sexual assault or feel they won’t be believed if they disclose or report it.

LGBTIQ+ experiences of sexual assault and barriers to support can include:

  • fear of not being believed due to the abuser’s role in the LGBTIQ+ community, and of being socially isolated if they share their experience
  • conflating LGBTQ+ identity with needing to be sexually active
  • fear of being ‘outed’ as LGBTIQ+ by disclosing an experience of sexual assault
  • feeling the need to protect an abuser who is also LGBTIQ+ (if a friend, partner or family member) from discrimination in the criminal justice system
  • feeling unable to decline sexual activity in a party or other social context where AOD are involved and sexual activity is normalised
  • lack of LGBTIQ+ sex education resulting in a lack of awareness of bodily autonomy; the role of consent; and what sex might mean for different bodies
  • doing sex work at the time of the assault, as sexual assault against sex workers is often not believed
  • feeling their gender dysphoria will not be believed, in the context of sex where they did not consent to the way their body was identified and sexualised
  • lack of education about safely exploring consent and sex for a person with an innate variation of sex characteristics, e.g. a young cis heterosexual woman may need aids to have internal sex due to her variation, which could lead to objectification and assault
  • hypersexualisation and sexism against LGBTIQ+ (particularly trans feminine) people can lead to coercive sexual experiences to avoid homophobic or transphobic physical violence, or being killed
  • the stigmatisation of ‘survival sex’, which can be a consensual exchange of sexual acts for resources like housing. Sometimes an exchange of resources is not consensual; however, an individual may not perceive it as non-consensual, due to stigma against sex work and survival sex.

Resources for family, domestic and sexual violence

LGBTQ+ Sexual Violence Prevention and Response Toolkit
Resources for support services and individuals to understand the context and experiences of sexual violence in LGBTQ+ communities.
Source: Say It Out Loud

Domestic and family violence
Exploring how endosexist discrimination plays a role in family and domestic violence experiences of people with innate variations of sex characteristics.
Source: InterAction for Health and Human Rights

Neurodiverse experience

There is high prevalence of intersecting experience of neurodiversity in the LGBTIQ+ population. In the survey of young people conducted for this project, 22 out of 26 respondents identified as neurodiverse, with the most common diagnoses being autism and ADHD (sometimes referred to together as AuDHD).

The correlation between neurodiversity and trans and gender diversity is also high. A 2018 Australian study found that up to 22.5% of trans and gender diverse adolescents had a diagnosis of autism, compared with 2.5% of all Australians,3,4 and 70% of the autistic community have been found to identify as non-heterosexual.5

Autigender and gendervague are terms specific to neurodiverse LGBTIQ+ gender identity. Autigender is a person whose understanding of gender is fundamentally altered or influenced by their autism. Gendervague refers to a person who cannot separate their gender identity from their neurodivergence.6

Being autistic doesn't cause my gender identity, but it is inextricably related to how I understand and experience gender.

Lydia X.Z. Brown (they/them)

When working with neurodivergent LGBTIQ+ clients:

  • support their access to CAMHS care with consideration of their neurodiverse experience, where possible
  • be aware they may be fidgety, uncomfortable with eye contact or physical closeness, need questions to be rephrased and take time to answer – this is not necessarily an indication they don’t want to engage
  • be aware of environmental stimuli like bright lighting, loud or constant noise and strong scents
  • create a sensory-responsive clinical setting they feel comfortable in, and include sensory supports, such as fidget toys and colouring books
  • support their self-advocacy in social, health and community settings by building their communication skills, navigating health and social systems, and conveying their sensory and communication needs.

Resources for neurodiverse experience

Position Statement on Autistic-LGBTIQA+ Identity
Explaining the intersections of autism and LGBTIQ+ from the perspective of ‘LGBTIQ+ Autistics’.
Source: reframingautism.org

Neurodiversity Toolkit
Fact sheets on working in an inclusive way with neurodiverse individuals in a higher education context.
Source: La Trobe University

Working with Young People Accessibility Audit Tool (PDF)
Use this tool to assess the intersectional accessibility of your service or engagement process.
Source: Association for the Wellbeing of Children in Healthcare

References

  1. La Trobe University. Writing Themselves In 4: NSW report. Melbourne, Vic: La Trobe University; 2021 [cited Sept 2024].
  2. NSW Ministry of Health. Social determinants of health. St Leonards, NSW; 2022 [cited Sept 2024].
  3. Strang JF, Janssen A, et al. Revisiting the Link: Evidence of the Rates of Autism in Studies of Gender Diverse Individuals. J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2018:885-887. DOI: 10.1016/j.jaac.2018.04.023.
  4. Gratton FV. Supporting transgender autistic youth and adults: a guide for professionals and families. London: Jessica Kingsley Publishers; 2020.
  5. George R, Stokes MA. A quantitative analysis of mental health among sexual and gender minority groups in ASD. J Autism Dev Disord. 2018;48(6):2052-63. DOI: 10.1007/s10803-018-3469-1.
  6. Stimpunks Foundation. Autigender. Littleton, CO: 2022 [cited Sept 2024].
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